Comments on: How to Deal With Toddler Tantrums and Emotional Outbursts Like an Expert https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/ Tue, 18 Jun 2024 18:28:46 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.3 By: Deanna Estabrooke https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-43954 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-43954 Another tip is to take off the child’s jacket, hat and gloves in the store. I see so many babies and kids still stuffed into all their outside clothes while in the basket or stroller. Mom has normally taken her jacket and the kids are hot and uncomfortable.

]]> By: Laura Jean https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-43953 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-43953 Just from experience, if you make a calm-down jar. Use a plastic one. My boy was still a little angry from his tantrum and decided to throw it and it smashed against the wall. That was NOT fun! ? Lesson learned!

]]> By: Jazzy's Mama https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-7724 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-7724 This post is full of helpful information! My daughter is 16 Months and the tamtrums just came out of nowhere, I feel less stressed and more prepared for the next tantrum after reading this. Thank you!

]]> By: Lori Jensen https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-7510 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-7510 In reply to Christine Bacas Tutor.

First I didn’t know what Terrible Twos meant but I found out with my 2 boys.. It was a difficult time for us, not really knowing what to do.. Luckily I read an article on a blog tantrumshelp.info and tried the method they talked about. Wow, that really opened our eyes. It worked and our boys behave now. Can really recommend it!!

]]> By: Lindsay https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-7242 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-7242 In reply to Laura.

I’m in the same boat right now, my one year old boy suddenly found out he can throw a tantrum, and all he wants is to be held most of the time! I can’t even do a 5 minute task around the house without him fighting for my full attention… what is the trick? I already give him 100 percent the rest of the time… sometimes he throws a fit just because I give him a kiss, so I’m really confused by his tantrums lol…

]]> By: Melissa https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-6937 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-6937 We had our first real in-store tantrum last week. After several warnings I left my cart and we went outside until he calmed down and then came back in and he wanted to be held the whole time, sigh. He’s 33lbs. Haha. It’s a small grocery store and the whole time I was thinking about how everybody was judging what I did or didn’t do with him, which is tough. So I should just stay and let him have it out? I have a co worker who always tells me I need to beat him with a wooden spoon. I’m like uhhhh. He’s my first one so I feel like I’m really fumbling through this parenting thing at the moment. Timeouts seem to be better than spankings for him, and he is great for the babysitter, just not for Mom and Dad of course.

]]> By: Mary Stiles https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-6390 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-6390 You say, don’t give in”, what do you suggest to do when your child’s wants something they can’t have that’s not in any way harmful to them? Ex: candy bar for a one year old.

]]> By: Stephanie, One Caring Mom https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-5890 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-5890 I love all of these tips! I quickly realized that I needed to loosen the reins. And in doing so, we averted tantrums. And securing your oxygen mask – genius!

Thanks for sharing these.

]]> By: Amy Louise Hislop https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-5802 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-5802 The minefield can be one over with understanding and acceptance of reality and feelings. Sometimes I think I’m being too real about life, and the cost of living, and the importance of accepting feelings and only getting what we need when we go shopping. It’s boring. And shouldn’t be the concern of a child but funnily enough they do seem to understand the complexities of advertising. And having a list is a great idea! Great blog. Thanks for sharing.

]]> By: cathy https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-5764 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-5764 I loved this article. It sure does open our eyes towards the possibilities of handling tantrums in a better manner. I find the biggest issue- is to keep calm and stand firm in front of the baby. And if this happens in a public place, it is all more the worse!

]]> By: Aiswarya https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-5627 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-5627 I like the suggestions, but this works when you can get the kid to at least listen. Since our second one arrived I feel like our 3+ just loves to scream and cry till he goes breathless ( should add he’s has a case of asthma that doc says he’ll outgrow soon). Most times standing in a quiet corner and talking to him works but sometimes he just doesn’t want to try any of calming techniques, those times I feel like ignoring him is the only thing that gets him to calm down in a few mins (feels like the longest few mins of the day)

]]> By: Crystal @ Mommyisawino.com https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-4631 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-4631 These are great tips. When my child throws a tantrum in the grocery store I remain calm and continue my shopping. The tantrum usually stop within a minute or two. Lately we were getting tantrums about wanting sweets. We stuck to our rules that he needed to eat all of his lunch or dinner before he got a sweet. The next day he ate all of his food with no fight.

]]> By: Laura https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-4601 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-4601 My kids are a year apart at two and three years old. Both girls. My three year old has been really easy and doesn’t tantrum often. Usually, just at nap and bed time and nothing makes her stop except actually falling asleep. My two-year-old’s tantrums, though seem to involve me and anytime I leave the room. Staying in her sight only makes it worse. How do you handle a tantrum when what she wants is YOU and your attention. Exclusively. It makes getting anything done while she’s awake hard. I usually grit my teeth and ignore her tantrum while I try to get done whatever it is I’m trying to do. If I stop and give her the attention she wants it just makes the tantrum ten times worse when I put her down. I’m at a loss at what to do.

]]> By: Nicole https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-4531 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-4531 One thing I’ve found helpful is to smile when my girl is “starting” to get irritated. Sometimes we can avoid a tantrum. Don’t underestimate how
your mood can affect your child. As we age, we can get an angry resting face so watch out for the unintended grumpies.

]]> By: Bonnie Wilcox https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-4483 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-4483 Excellent advice!!

]]> By: Inga https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-4137 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-4137 I enjoyed reading your blog so much this morning. Great, thoughtful and honest advice. Thank you for sharing!

]]> By: Kelly Holmes https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-4018 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-4018 In reply to Jillian Woelfle-Olson.

Jillian, I’m so glad to hear this resonated with you! Tantrums are such a struggle, even now on my third kiddo with lots of practice, ha! Hopefully these tips will help you and your husband in the future. <3

]]> By: Jillian Woelfle-Olson https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-4016 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-4016 This is LITERALLY the most helpful article I’ve read on Tantrums. It’s so relatable and conscientious! I shared this with my husband immediately because he gets angry with our daughter and it makes it worse. I heard from others to ignore, and especially since I was a child of physical abuse, I did not want to be like my parent– so ignoring seemed logical. Thank you so much for this article, I can’t tell you enough how appreciative I am. Being a parent is hard, especially if you didn’t have a great example growing up– it’s nice to hear others struggle and to have a reference point.

]]> By: parentsupporthub.com https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-3959 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-3959 Like us, kids also need to get their anger out and as a parent, you need to ensure that they vent in a non destructive way. The next time your child is crying or whining, get them engaged in something interesting so he or she completely forgets about the meltdown. Interestingly, kids have pretty short attention spans and their minds are easiest to divert. So the next time your child wants to buy every toy at the supermarket and become a ticking time bomb, try something to quickly switch gears and say “hey, can you help me pick a flavor for ice cream?”

]]> By: Maria https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/handle-kids-temper-tantrums/#comment-3801 https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/?p=3444#comment-3801 You are a great mom. :-) I really admire you.

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