{"id":31139,"date":"2018-02-14T18:41:12","date_gmt":"2018-02-14T18:41:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wonderoak.com\/?p=31139"},"modified":"2019-02-12T18:34:20","modified_gmt":"2019-02-12T18:34:20","slug":"dear-kids-i-am-with-you-matter-what","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wonderoak.com\/2018\/02\/14\/dear-kids-i-am-with-you-matter-what\/","title":{"rendered":"Dear Kids, I am with you no matter what"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Kids,<\/p>\n<p>I am with you.<\/p>\n<p>I was with you when you were in my belly. I was swollen, heavy, tired, and I felt like a moose, but I was with you.<\/p>\n<p>I was with you in the seconds, the minutes, and the hours of labor, when I truly didn&#8217;t think I could go on.<\/p>\n<p>I was with you when I held you, and nursed you, and smelled your perfect skin for the very first time.<\/p>\n<p>I was with you at 3am and again at 3:45. I was with you when I stumbled in the dark to get you from your crib. I was with you when I bargained with God for you to sleep.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>I was with you when I cried because I was so very tired, and my pants didn&#8217;t fit, and I couldn&#8217;t find time to brush my hair.<\/p>\n<p>I am with you when you sneak into my bed at night and I&#8217;m pushed to the far edge of the mattress.<\/p>\n<p>I am with you when you throw a fit about something you want, and when you act like I&#8217;m trying to poison you with dinner.<\/p>\n<p>I am with you when you roll your eyes and you walk away. I will always be with you my love, no matter how mad you get at me.<\/p>\n<p>I am with you when we snuggle on the couch and watch a movie.<\/p>\n<p>I am with you when you ask me a million questions before I&#8217;ve had the first sip of my coffee.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m with you when I&#8217;m grumpy and you can tell. I&#8217;m with you when I&#8217;m short tempered and lecturing about silly things like food on the couch.<\/p>\n<p>I am with you when you&#8217;ve lost your socks and your shoes and we are running fifteen minutes late already.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m with you when you want a hug and when you don&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t always get it right; I often get it wrong, but I will <em>be with you<\/em> forever no matter what.<\/p>\n<p>I will be with you if you get good grades, and I&#8217;ll be with you if you&#8217;re struggling in school.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll be with you when you succeed and I&#8217;ll be with you when you make hundreds upon hundreds of mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve made them too my love, and I understand better than you know.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll be with you if you become an astronaut, or a teacher, or a person who is just struggling to find their way. We all struggle my love. You could never disappoint me, because I am a fan of <em>you.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>You have nothing to earn, and nothing to prove.<\/p>\n<p>I am here forever.<\/p>\n<p>There is nothing you could ever do to make me walk one single step away from you.<\/p>\n<p>Not ever.<\/p>\n<p>You are my forever and ever.<\/p>\n<p>I would choose you over every restful night, and every painless day a thousand times again.<\/p>\n<p>Love,<\/p>\n<p>Mama<\/p>\n<p>XOXO<\/p>\n<p>For more like this you can follow Jess of Wonderoak here, on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/wonderoak\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Facebook<\/a>, and on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/wonderoakblog\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><em><span class=\"s1\">JOIN THE WONDEROAK SISTERHOOD<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<div data-carousel-extra='{&quot;blog_id&quot;:1,&quot;permalink&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/wonderoak.com\/2018\/02\/14\/dear-kids-i-am-with-you-matter-what\/&quot;}' 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It says I AM FOR you no matter what. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I don&#8217;t care if your house looks like the bottom of a cereal box. I don&#8217;t care if you&#8217;re makeup is fresh or three days old. I don&#8217;t care if you smile a lot, cry a lot, or yell a lot. I don&#8217;t care if you breastfeed or bottle feed, or if you like a glass of whiskey at the end of a long day. I don&#8217;t care if motherhood fits you like a glove or like a too-tight pair of pants that ride up the nether regions. I don&#8217;t care if you house smells like lavender or dirty diapers. I don&#8217;t care if you stay at home or have a full-time job. I don&#8217;t care if you&#8217;re keto or paleo or eat a lot of frozen pizza and carrot sticks.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I AM FOR YOU. 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