{"id":5178,"date":"2014-06-19T08:00:43","date_gmt":"2014-06-19T13:00:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/?p=5178"},"modified":"2024-01-14T08:25:30","modified_gmt":"2024-01-14T14:25:30","slug":"baby-not-sleeping","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/baby-not-sleeping\/","title":{"rendered":"The Month My Baby Wouldn&#8217;t Sleep\u2014And What I Did About It"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"meta-desc\">Inside: Even when you know it&rsquo;s just a phase, sleep regressions are KILLER. Here&rsquo;s a story from one mom of what happened when her baby wouldn&rsquo;t sleep for a month.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the last month, our one-year-old has developed a terrible habit&mdash;keeping us up until 1:00 am.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She&rsquo;s not cranky or crying. She just <strong>won&rsquo;t sleep<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So she plays and plays and plays until she can&rsquo;t walk straight, and then we cart her off to bed and cross our fingers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes she sleeps, sometimes she doesn&rsquo;t. When she doesn&rsquo;t, we hang our heads and trudge back to the living room for more playtime and stories.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One night, I took her on a walk around the neighborhood at 1:00 am until she fell asleep. It didn&rsquo;t feel creepy <strong>until<\/strong> I saw some dude limping down the street, fidgeting with his shorts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Another night, we loaded her up in the car at 12:30 am and drove around for 45 minutes. But she <strong>never<\/strong> fell asleep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You name it, we&rsquo;ve tried it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But the <strong>worst part<\/strong> isn&rsquo;t the baby keeping us up late.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When she does finally fall asleep, she wakes up every hour to two hours. Sometimes every 30 minutes to an hour.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She&rsquo;s killing us, slowly.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id5178_febd54-33 .kb-table-of-content-wrap{padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id5178_febd54-33 .kb-table-of-contents-title-wrap{padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id5178_febd54-33 .kb-table-of-contents-title{font-weight:regular;font-style:normal;text-transform:uppercase;}.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id5178_febd54-33 .kb-table-of-content-wrap .kb-table-of-content-list{font-weight:regular;font-style:normal;margin-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;}<\/style>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-things-i-know\">3 Things I Know<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>It&rsquo;s just a phase.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>This too shall pass.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She&rsquo;s gearing up for another <a title=\"The Wonder Weeks: How to Stimulate Your Baby's Mental Development and Help Him Turn His 10 Predictable, Great, Fussy Phases into Magical Leaps Forward\" href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/9491882007\/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=9491882007&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=idealmom-20&amp;linkId=TKQA3QOIC7HNM3A5\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">wonder week<\/a><sup>&dagger;<\/sup>.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"meta-desc\"><sup>&dagger;<\/sup> This site is reader-supported. When you buy through our links, we may earn an affiliate commission.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I know all that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>But.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&rsquo;m really freaking tired.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/baby-will-only-sleep-on-me\/\">7 Things to Do When You&rsquo;re Stuck Under a Sleeping Baby<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Here&rsquo;s How We&rsquo;re Dealing<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>After work one day a couple weeks ago, we took the girls to the grocery store to pick up a few essentials&mdash;milk, bananas, ice cream bars.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Our grocery store trips have become <strong>embarrassing<\/strong> lately.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"199\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/no-tired-199x300.jpg\" alt=\"What to Do When Your Baby Won't Sleep\" class=\"wp-image-1256\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/no-tired-199x300.jpg 199w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/no-tired.jpg 200w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/no-tired-194x292.jpg 194w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/no-tired-132x200.jpg 132w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 199px) 100vw, 199px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/no-tired.jpg\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/evilerin\/3216371508\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Evil Erin<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>We wander the aisles trying to remember what we need. Then when we&rsquo;re almost done, we realize we haven&rsquo;t bought anything for dinner that week. So we double back to get dinner supplies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes it&rsquo;s all our brains can handle to think of one dinner at a time, so we end up making several trips around the store&mdash;one round for each meal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a <strong>special treat<\/strong>, we bought a super classy $2.99 bottle of wine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That night, we pulled into the garage, throwing out dinner options.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Pasta?&rdquo; I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Works for me. Oh, is today Wednesday?&rdquo; Ty asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I paused to think because figuring out the day of the week actually does require me to focus nowadays. &ldquo;Yeah.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;I&rsquo;m gonna set out the trash bins before I forget.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Good catch,&rdquo; I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I unbuckled the baby and put her on my right hip, then loaded my work bags on my left shoulder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As I deposited each of my bags&mdash;purse on the counter, pump bag in the pantry, laptop bag on the kitchen table&mdash;I felt something wet on my hip.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I figured it was the baby drooling on me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She squirmed out of my arms, so I set her on the living room rug to play and headed back to the garage to grab the groceries from the trunk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The air hit my hip where it was wet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I looked down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Definitely <strong>not<\/strong> drool.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Oh shit.&rdquo; Ty had just walked inside to get the kitchen trash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;What?&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;She had a blowout.&rdquo; I started back towards her in the living room. Maybe there was still time to save the rug.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I scooped her up and whisked her to the bedroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This was a <strong>two-man job<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We got her cleaned up, I changed my shirt, and Ty scrubbed the living room rug.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I sighed. &ldquo;Pizza?&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ty grinned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I queued up the pizza place&rsquo;s web site and ordered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Our Reward for a Job Well Done<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>That night, we got our fill of pizza, split a root beer, and after her big sister went to sleep we even got to watch an episode of <a title=\"New Girl - TV Series\" href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/B00F9D02BU\/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B00F9D02BU&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=idealmom-20&amp;linkId=3XFV2KNOXNZL2J3M\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">New Girl<\/a> while the baby chewed her way through her <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/2013\/10\/9-great-baby-books\/\">board book library<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When she started walking like a drunk person, we got her ready for bed and held our breath.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I laid down next to her, nursed her, and she fell asleep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Before<\/strong> 1:00 am!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I waited a few minutes to be sure it would stick.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then I carefully inched away from her, slid off the bed, and tiptoed out of the room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignwide\"><a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-sleep-couch.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"401\" src=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-sleep-couch.jpg\" alt=\"What to Do When Your Baby Won't Sleep\" class=\"wp-image-5202\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-sleep-couch.jpg 600w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-sleep-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-sleep-couch-437x292.jpg 437w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-sleep-couch-200x133.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-sleep-couch.jpg\"><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/7433080@N02\/8187754127\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">wideeyedwonders<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ty looked up. &ldquo;She&rsquo;s out?&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I grinned. &ldquo;She&rsquo;s out!&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We high-fived.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I turned on the baby monitor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;How about a glass of wine?&rdquo; he asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Yes, please.&rdquo; I walked toward the fridge and opened it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I moved a few things around. &ldquo;Did you put the wine in the fridge?&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;No,&rdquo; Ty said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Where is it?&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And then <strong>we both realized<\/strong> at the same time:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The groceries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They&rsquo;d been in the trunk, in the 80-degree garage, for four hours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Quick!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ty ran out to the garage to grab the grocery bags. I glanced at the baby monitor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This was burning some serious wine-drinking time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thankfully, we didn&rsquo;t fare too bad on the groceries. The ice cream bars were toast, but the milk still seemed nice and cool.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We danced around each other in the kitchen, trying to put the survivors away as quietly as possible, both checking the baby monitor <strong>every 30 seconds<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When we were done, I opened the bottle of wine and poured two glasses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I walked up to Ty and handed one to him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We clinked glasses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I lifted my glass to my lips&hellip;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And the baby cried.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A Kick in the Pants<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The next morning, I had my little one on my hip as I corralled her toys into the toy bin. She prefers a fresh start to the day before she spreads them all over the house again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My big kid was on the couch, reading one of her little sister&rsquo;s books to herself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Mommy?&rdquo; she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Mmm-hmm.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;It seems like you don&rsquo;t smile very often.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I froze and looked up at her. &ldquo;What?&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She shrugged. &ldquo;It feels like you smiled more before.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;What do you mean? I smile.&rdquo; But I was now <strong>painfully<\/strong> aware of how the corners of my mouth turned down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She ducked her head and went back to reading.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I continued tidying up, my daughter&rsquo;s comment ringing in my head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I picked a hairbrush up off the floor and headed to the bathroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As I put it away in the drawer, I caught sight of my face in the mirror and stopped.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No smile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>My own child thinks I don&rsquo;t smile?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">My Breaking Point<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>After both girls were in bed that night, we got 15 minutes before the baby woke up the first time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I opened the bedroom door, my eyes adjusting to the darkness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Again, I realized I wasn&rsquo;t smiling. Actually, the <strong>opposite<\/strong> of smiling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>What&rsquo;s wrong with me?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I laid next to her and got ready to nurse her back to sleep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I knew she&rsquo;d wake up again in 30 minutes or 20 minutes or 10 minutes and want to nurse again. She was dependent on me to fall back asleep, <strong>every time<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And this was okay with me for a while.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I realized it was no longer just me soldiering through without sleep. My lack of sleep was affecting the rest of the family too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With my hands on my nursing bra clasp, I stopped. I know <a title=\"Here&rsquo;s The Schedule Very Successful People Follow Every Day\" href=\"http:\/\/www.bakadesuyo.com\/2014\/06\/schedule\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">you can&rsquo;t cheat yourself<\/a> on sleep and not pay the price. It <strong>will<\/strong> affect your brainpower. And your mood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;No,&rdquo; I said out loud, surprising myself a little. &ldquo;No milk.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The baby&rsquo;s whimpers turned to full-on crying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I snuggled up next to her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She was having <strong>none<\/strong> of it. Louder crying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I sang &ldquo;Hush Little Baby.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She didn&rsquo;t hush.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I let her bury her fingers in my hair&mdash;a calming trick that&rsquo;s worked since she was a newborn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She was now <strong>royally<\/strong> pissed. I was changing the rules on her, in the middle of the game.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It took me 45 minutes to get her calmed down, another 15 to get her to sleep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After I eased out of the room, I found Ty in the kitchen cleaning up from dinner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;I think I&rsquo;m going to night wean Bails,&rdquo; I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He looked up, searching my face for a few seconds. &ldquo;I think that&rsquo;s a good idea.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;It&rsquo;s probably a little overdue, huh?&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He nodded, slowly. &ldquo;Probably.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/sleep-deprived-mom\/\">How to Get Better Sleep As a Sleep-Deprived Mom (Yes, Really)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Did It Work?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>So we night weaned our baby, sort of on a whim. With my oldest giving me the <strong>wake-up call<\/strong> I needed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The first night was awful. She woke up at least every hour, sometimes more. We took turns trying to calm her down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She was just plain <strong>angry<\/strong>, and none of us slept very much at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignwide\"><a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-sleep-mom.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" src=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-sleep-mom.jpg\" alt=\"What to Do When Your Baby Won't Sleep\" class=\"wp-image-5207\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-sleep-mom.jpg 600w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-sleep-mom-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-sleep-mom-438x292.jpg 438w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-sleep-mom-200x133.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-sleep-mom.jpg\"><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/juanktru\/1133617302\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Juan Camilo Trujillo<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>After she fell asleep around 3:00 am, I picked up my phone to pull up this blog post on baby sleep and re-read it for the thousandth time: <a href=\"http:\/\/sweetmadeleine.ca\/2013\/10\/14\/here-are-some-lies-people-tell-you-about-infant-sleep\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Here Are Some Lies People Tell You About Infant Sleep<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I searched for more advice and found another blog post, which I got halfway through before the baby stirred again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The whole night, I kept telling myself: <em>It can only go up from here.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The <strong>next<\/strong> night, she woke up at 1:00 am. With her strapped to my chest in the <a title=\"Ergo Baby Carrier\" href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/B00GEF7DJG\/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B00GEF7DJG&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=idealmom-20&amp;linkId=NUFKBOL4MVAYBVYE\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">Ergo<\/a>, I paced the house in the dark. After the first hour, my legs felt like jelly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I just wanted to sit down. But I knew we&rsquo;d have to start all over getting her calmed down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She <strong>finally<\/strong> settled down at 3:00 am, after two hours of pacing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And then? She slept for three hours straight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>DIVINE.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She hadn&rsquo;t done that for <strong>months and months<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The next night was a little bit better. And the next, a little bit more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As of last night, we&rsquo;ve been at it for almost two weeks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Since we started night weaning, our baby hasn&rsquo;t nursed during the night. Plus, she&rsquo;s getting faster at falling back asleep when she does wake up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Last night, she woke up once. ONCE.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I feel like a <strong>new woman<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I had to test my theory.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Today, I asked my oldest: &ldquo;Do you feel like Mommy is smiling more lately?&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She paused. &ldquo;Maybe,&rdquo; she said. &ldquo;Can we have dessert?&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Want More?<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/themilitarywifeandmom.com\/love-of-sleep-ebook-aff\/?ref=3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/for-the-love-of-sleep-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"For the Love of Sleep\" class=\"wp-image-8906\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/for-the-love-of-sleep-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/for-the-love-of-sleep-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/for-the-love-of-sleep-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/for-the-love-of-sleep-195x292.jpg 195w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/for-the-love-of-sleep-500x750.jpg 500w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/for-the-love-of-sleep-533x800.jpg 533w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/for-the-love-of-sleep-736x1104.jpg 736w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/for-the-love-of-sleep.jpg 1800w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/for-the-love-of-sleep.jpg\"><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>If you were blessed with a non-sleeping baby too, my friend Lauren has a ton of awesome <a href=\"http:\/\/www.themilitarywifeandmom.com\/starting-babywise-top-10-newborn-baby-sleep-tips\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">baby sleep tips<\/a> for you. But the real <strong>game-changer<\/strong> for me was her book: <a href=\"https:\/\/themilitarywifeandmom.com\/love-of-sleep-ebook-aff\/?ref=3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">For the Love of Sleep: Practical Baby Sleep Solutions for the Everyday Mama<\/a>. Lucky for me, I read this book before my third baby was born, and I was able to avoid some of the hurdles I created for myself with my previous two babies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But if you&rsquo;re in a tough spot as in &ldquo;I need a sleep fix <strong>right now<\/strong>, or I&rsquo;m going to run away from my family and hide out in an Appalachian shack 200 miles from civilization,&rdquo; I highly recommend this <a href=\"http:\/\/coostosnooze.com\/free-sleep-tips\/?ref=20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">free 3-part video series<\/a> from my friend Rachel. She&rsquo;s had five babies in five years, so she knows what she&rsquo;s talking about. 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