{"id":7203,"date":"2015-03-27T09:45:07","date_gmt":"2015-03-27T14:45:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/?p=7203"},"modified":"2022-03-31T10:05:58","modified_gmt":"2022-03-31T15:05:58","slug":"run-errands-no-whining","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/run-errands-no-whining\/","title":{"rendered":"When Your Child Always Wants to Buy Something, Here&#8217;s a Quick + Simple Fix"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"meta-desc\">Inside: When you feel like your child always wants to buy something like toys or treats at the store, you need this simple parenting hack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A puppy-shaped purse. A personal fan. A toy cat that meows like a real cat&hellip;because I guess having three cats in your house isn&rsquo;t enough?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These are all things that my kids have seen while we were running errands in various stores, and they insisted they <em>just had<\/em> to own them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What do I mean by &ldquo;insisted&rdquo;? The sales pitch typically starts with <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/stop-your-kid-from-whining\/\">whining<\/a>, progresses to <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/quick-fix-pouting-kid\/\">pouting<\/a>, and sometimes crescendoes with truly spectacular <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/handle-kids-temper-tantrums\/\">temper tantrums<\/a>. In those moments, it feels like my child <em>always<\/em> wants to buy something, and I worry that I&rsquo;m raising entitled kids.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But thanks to one <strong>simple<\/strong> parenting trick, we no longer have to expend Herculean effort to escape a store without our child whining or begging for us to buy something.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id_040fbb-3c .kb-table-of-content-wrap{padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;}.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id_040fbb-3c .kb-table-of-contents-title-wrap{padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id_040fbb-3c .kb-table-of-contents-title{font-weight:regular;font-style:normal;text-transform:uppercase;}.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id_040fbb-3c .kb-table-of-content-wrap .kb-table-of-content-list{font-weight:regular;font-style:normal;margin-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;}<\/style>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-s-the-big-deal-anyway\">What&rsquo;s the Big Deal, Anyway?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>This isn&rsquo;t <em>just<\/em> a case of not wanting to listen to my kid whining. This solution is a simple way to give my child practice with something important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because as it turns out, a child&rsquo;s ability to self-regulate &ndash; resist impulses, control emotions, and so on &ndash; is actually a <a title=\"Creative Play Makes for Kids in Control\" href=\"http:\/\/www.npr.org\/templates\/story\/story.php?storyId=76838288\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">bigger predictor of success in school<\/a> than the child&rsquo;s IQ. Plus, children who can control their impulses <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pnas.org\/doi\/10.1073\/pnas.1010076108\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">turn into adults<\/a> who are healthier and have greater financial stability.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By teaching my child how to keep her impulses in check, I&rsquo;m setting her up for a life of success and financial security, which I&rsquo;m <em>sure<\/em> she&rsquo;ll use to put me in the bestest, poshest old person&rsquo;s home that money can buy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/temper-tantrum-money.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" data-pin-id=\"128000814385376919\" data-pin-description=\"Do your kids ask for toys and treats when you run errands? This simple parenting tip will end the whining and begging!\" src=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/temper-tantrum-money.jpg\" alt=\"My child always wants to buy something at the store, but we're not made of money. The good news: This parenting hack works like a charm.\" class=\"wp-image-6154\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/temper-tantrum-money.jpg 640w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/temper-tantrum-money-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/temper-tantrum-money-438x292.jpg 438w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/temper-tantrum-money-200x133.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/temper-tantrum-money.jpg\"><\/a><figcaption>Photo by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/stevendepolo\/5437898348\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Steven Depolo<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"steps\">A 3-Step Fix For When Your Child Always Wants to Buy Something<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>When one of our kids asks for something at a store, this is our surefire process to avoid a meltdown. If you feel like your child always wants to buy something, here&rsquo;s what you do:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Acknowledge the desire.<\/strong> This could be as simple as saying, &ldquo;Yeah, that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Accoutrements-12470-Action-Figure-Multicolor-dp-B00HZSMWMY\/dp\/B00HZSMWMY?&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=hyhf-whining-20&amp;linkId=716632bd3e21baaef18f40acad2b59b3&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Crazy Cat Lady action figure<\/a><sup>&dagger;<\/sup> <em>is<\/em> really cool.&rdquo; When I forget this step, the whole solution doesn&rsquo;t work as well. (And hey, I have absolutely zero idea what I&rsquo;d do with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Rachael-Ray-53106-Serveware-12-Cup\/dp\/B005PJ0RXQ?crid=1V4LX8CGOCF98&amp;keywords=egg+tray+ceramic&amp;qid=1648677036&amp;s=home-garden&amp;sprefix=egg+tray+ceramic%2Cgarden%2C105&amp;sr=1-11&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=hyhf-whining-20&amp;linkId=72382a5a910b3a8997fb35a9550ef6f5&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">these egg holders<\/a> I always see in Anthropologie, but my desire to own them has infiltrated every fiber of my soul. So I really do get it, kiddo.)<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"meta-desc\"><sup>&dagger;<\/sup> This site is reader-supported. When you buy through our links, we may earn an affiliate commission.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"2\"><li><strong>Ask this question.<\/strong> &ldquo;Do you want me to add it to your wish list?&rdquo; This transforms the focus of the moment from wanting something RIGHT NOW to evaluating whether it&rsquo;s something on par with the things on her birthday and Christmas wish list.<\/li><li><strong>Honor the answer.<\/strong> If she says yes, I pull out my phone, open the notes app, and add that thing to her running wish list <em>right then and there<\/em>. No matter how ridiculous that thing may be. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/B000SSV8AA?ie=UTF8&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=hyhf-whining-20&amp;linkId=c7cde228f292f8792bd6f75141a48a6d&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Bacon band-aids<\/a>? Of course! Who wouldn&rsquo;t want those?<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>And that&rsquo;s it!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not only do we head off whining at the pass, we have a ready-made wish list when grandparents need gift ideas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-one-important-rule-for-parents\">One Important Rule for Parents<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe this goes without saying, but an important part of this equation is: When your child always wants to buy something, don&rsquo;t buy what they&rsquo;re asking for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sure, it&rsquo;s fun to see that look of joy on their grubby little face, but you&rsquo;re actually confusing the heck out of your kid. They&rsquo;ll continue asking for stuff because that one time, they asked and you got it for them. They won&rsquo;t understand why <strong>this time<\/strong> you&rsquo;re being such a meanie, so they&rsquo;ll ramp up their efforts to convince you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you really want to surprise your kid, do it in a day or two. Let the moment of impulse pass &ndash; for your child <em>and<\/em> you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/run-errands-no-whining-kid-surprise.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" data-pin-id=\"128000814385376919\" data-pin-description=\"Do your kids ask for toys and treats when you run errands? This simple parenting tip will end the whining and begging!\" src=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/run-errands-no-whining-kid-surprise.jpg\" alt=\"When your child always wants to buy something at the store, don't give in, no matter how big the puppy-dog eyes they give you.\" class=\"wp-image-7219\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/run-errands-no-whining-kid-surprise.jpg 640w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/run-errands-no-whining-kid-surprise-550x413.jpg 550w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/run-errands-no-whining-kid-surprise-350x263.jpg 350w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/run-errands-no-whining-kid-surprise-260x195.jpg 260w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/run-errands-no-whining-kid-surprise-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/run-errands-no-whining-kid-surprise-389x292.jpg 389w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/run-errands-no-whining-kid-surprise.jpg\"><\/a><figcaption>Photo by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/27524212@N04\/3938838058\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Nadia Hatoum<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-but-that-s-not-the-best-part\">But That&rsquo;s Not the Best Part<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Every month or two, we review the list with the kids. They see the toys they wanted on a whim right alongside their <strong>biggest<\/strong> desires like a new bike or a family trip to the beach. It&rsquo;s the perfect opportunity for us to talk about how if you spend all your money on little stuff, you won&rsquo;t be able to save enough for your big goals like vacations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In almost every case, the kids change their minds and say they don&rsquo;t want the impulse toys on their wish list anymore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Which is awesome.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because <em>we<\/em> don&rsquo;t end up spending money on junky toys that will just end up as clutter in our kids&rsquo; rooms, and <em>our kids<\/em> learn the important life skill of impulse control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-before-you-go-a-disclaimer\">Before You Go: A Disclaimer<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In full disclosure, this trick doesn&rsquo;t prevent begging every <strong>single<\/strong> time. But about 95 percent of the time, it works like a charm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For the deepest of desires (those adorable <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Rachael-Ray-53106-Serveware-12-Cup\/dp\/B005PJ0RXQ?crid=1V4LX8CGOCF98&amp;keywords=egg+tray+ceramic&amp;qid=1648677036&amp;s=home-garden&amp;sprefix=egg+tray+ceramic%2Cgarden%2C105&amp;sr=1-11&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=hyhf-whining-20&amp;linkId=72382a5a910b3a8997fb35a9550ef6f5&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">egg trays<\/a> <em>will<\/em> be mine!), you may have to use another parenting tip from your toolbox.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are a few expert-recommended tricks that work well for us: <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/stop-your-kid-from-whining\/\">7 Surefire Ways to Get Your Kid to Stop Whining<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading after-entry-cta\" id=\"h-before-you-go-get-my-free-cheat-sheet-75-nbsp-positive-phrases-every-child-needs-to-hear\">Before you go, get my FREE cheat sheet: <a href=\"#get-printable-positive-words\" class=\"modal-trigger\">75&nbsp;Positive Phrases Every Child Needs to Hear<\/a><\/h6>\n\n\n<style>#kt-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-blocks-modal-link{color:var(--global-palette2, #2B6CB0);border-radius:0px;font-size:16px;line-height:24px;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;padding:0px 0px 0px 0px;margin:0px 0px 0px 0px;}#kt-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-blocks-modal-link:hover, #kt-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-blocks-modal-link:focus{color:#f96d60;}#kt-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-overlay, #kt-target-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-overlay, .kb-modal-content19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-overlay{background:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.6);}#kt-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-overlay, #kt-target-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-overlay, .kb-modal-content19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-overlay{-ms-flex-pack:center;justify-content:center;-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;}#kt-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-container, #kt-target-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-container, .kb-modal-content19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-container{width:100%;max-width:700px;-ms-flex-pack:flex-start;justify-content:flex-start;text-align:left;-ms-flex-align:flex-start;align-items:flex-start;}#kt-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-container, #kt-target-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-container, .kb-modal-content19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-container{padding-top:30px;padding-right:30px;padding-bottom:30px;padding-left:30px;margin-top:10px;margin-right:10px;margin-bottom:10px;margin-left:10px;}#kt-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-container, #kt-target-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-container, .kb-modal-content19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-container{background:var(--global-palette9, #ffffff);border-top-left-radius:3px;border-top-right-radius:3px;border-bottom-right-radius:3px;border-bottom-left-radius:3px;border-top:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-right:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-bottom:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-left:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);}#kt-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-close svg, #kt-target-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-close svg, .kb-modal-content19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-close svg{width:24px;height:24px;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){#kt-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-container, #kt-target-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-container, .kb-modal-content19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-container{width:100%;border-top:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-right:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-bottom:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-left:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);}}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){#kt-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-close svg, #kt-target-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-close svg, .kb-modal-content19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-close svg{width:24px;height:24px;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){#kt-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-container, #kt-target-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-container, .kb-modal-content19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-container{width:100%;border-top:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-right:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-bottom:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-left:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);}#kt-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-close svg, #kt-target-modal19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-close svg, .kb-modal-content19878_ef407f-13 .kt-modal-close svg{width:24px;height:24px;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-modal aligncenter kt-modal-linkalign-center\" id=\"kt-modal19878_ef407f-13\"><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-your-turn\">Your Turn<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>What&rsquo;s your best trick for when your child always wants to buy something? Share in a comment below!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Inside: When you feel like your child always wants to buy something like toys or treats at the store, you need this simple parenting hack. A puppy-shaped purse. A personal fan. A toy cat that meows like a real cat&hellip;because I guess having three cats in your house isn&rsquo;t enough? 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