{"id":7973,"date":"2015-08-26T05:30:44","date_gmt":"2015-08-26T10:30:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/?p=7973"},"modified":"2024-04-19T07:15:52","modified_gmt":"2024-04-19T12:15:52","slug":"terrible-twos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/terrible-twos\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Survive the Terrible Twos\u2014Plus Help Your Child Thrive"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"meta-desc\">Inside: If you want to survive the &ldquo;terrible twos&rdquo; with your sanity intact, first you need this important perspective shift.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Is he teething?&rdquo; she asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We were in the elevator heading up to our apartment after running two quick errands. My son was crying &ndash; <strong>again<\/strong>. Every day after we get home, he does this thing where he wants to pretend to drive the car. And then he wants to run around the parking lot like a wild horse in an open field.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I wrangled him, walked inside, and got on the elevator.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And he was crying his eyes out in a full-on meltdown. The woman with us in the elevator repeated, &ldquo;Is he teething? You must be getting some teeth there, huh?&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I can&rsquo;t keep track of how many times I get this question. When it happens, I think, <em>Here we go again.<\/em> But instead, I say, &ldquo;No, he&rsquo;s just two.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Oh, the terrible twos! I remember those days,&rdquo; she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The conversation feels like the movie <em>Groundhog Day<\/em>. It&rsquo;s the same thing every day, just with a different stranger each time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"yellowbox\"><strong>Bonus:<\/strong> As a bonus for joining my weekly newsletter, <a class=\"modal-trigger\" href=\"#get-printable-tantrums\">get a free cheat sheet<\/a> of five simple ways to survive your child&rsquo;s next tantrum &ndash; plus five things <em>not<\/em> to do.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>#kt-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-blocks-modal-link{color:var(--global-palette2, #2B6CB0);border-radius:0px;font-size:16px;line-height:24px;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;padding:0px 0px 0px 0px;margin:0px 0px 0px 0px;}#kt-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-blocks-modal-link:hover, #kt-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-blocks-modal-link:focus{color:#f96d60;}#kt-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-overlay, #kt-target-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-overlay, .kb-modal-content20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-overlay{background:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.6);}#kt-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-overlay, #kt-target-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-overlay, .kb-modal-content20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-overlay{-ms-flex-pack:center;justify-content:center;-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;}#kt-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-container, #kt-target-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-container, .kb-modal-content20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-container{width:100%;max-width:700px;-ms-flex-pack:flex-start;justify-content:flex-start;text-align:left;-ms-flex-align:flex-start;align-items:flex-start;}#kt-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-container, #kt-target-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-container, .kb-modal-content20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-container{padding-top:30px;padding-right:30px;padding-bottom:30px;padding-left:30px;margin-top:10px;margin-right:10px;margin-bottom:10px;margin-left:10px;}#kt-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-container, #kt-target-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-container, .kb-modal-content20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-container{background:var(--global-palette9, #ffffff);border-top-left-radius:3px;border-top-right-radius:3px;border-bottom-right-radius:3px;border-bottom-left-radius:3px;border-top:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-right:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-bottom:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-left:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);}#kt-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-close svg, #kt-target-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-close svg, .kb-modal-content20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-close svg{width:24px;height:24px;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){#kt-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-container, #kt-target-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-container, .kb-modal-content20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-container{width:100%;border-top:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-right:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-bottom:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-left:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);}}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){#kt-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-close svg, #kt-target-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-close svg, .kb-modal-content20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-close svg{width:24px;height:24px;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){#kt-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-container, #kt-target-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-container, .kb-modal-content20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-container{width:100%;border-top:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-right:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-bottom:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-left:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);}#kt-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-close svg, #kt-target-modal20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-close svg, .kb-modal-content20015_8232a9-51 .kt-modal-close svg{width:24px;height:24px;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-modal aligncenter kt-modal-linkalign-center\" id=\"kt-modal20015_8232a9-51\"><\/div>\n\n\n<style>.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id_58c78b-0b .kb-table-of-content-wrap{padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id_58c78b-0b .kb-table-of-contents-title-wrap{padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id_58c78b-0b .kb-table-of-contents-title{font-weight:regular;font-style:normal;text-transform:uppercase;}.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id_58c78b-0b .kb-table-of-content-wrap .kb-table-of-content-list{font-weight:regular;font-style:normal;margin-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;}<\/style>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-it-was-starting-to-get-to-me\">It Was Starting to Get to Me<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Is my son out of the ordinary for a 2-year-old? Why is a little <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/handle-kids-temper-tantrums\/\">tantrum<\/a> all that terrible of a thing? And seriously, <strong>please<\/strong> stop asking if he&rsquo;s teething. He&rsquo;s had a full set of teeth for more than a year now. I&rsquo;m sure at some point he&rsquo;ll get his 2-year molars, but odds are if a 2-year-old is crying, it&rsquo;s not because of teething.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A friend once shared a quote from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0914257196\/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0914257196&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=hyhf-terrible-twos-20&amp;linkId=T6L7E3HVWYHADHJH\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">parenting author Peggy O&rsquo;Mara<\/a><sup>&dagger;<\/sup> with me:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>&ldquo;The way we talk to our children becomes their inner voice.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<cite><meta charset=\"utf-8\">Peggy O&rsquo;Mara<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"meta-desc\"><sup>&dagger;<\/sup> This site is reader-supported. When you buy through our links, we may earn an affiliate commission.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That quote stuck with me over the past year. Is labeling my toddler as &ldquo;terrible&rdquo; helping me in the long run? And is this the parenting mindset I want embrace throughout the next year?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don&rsquo;t have the answers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&rsquo;m a first-time mom, and I often find myself falling down and making mistakes each and every day. I&rsquo;m learning to be a mom in the same way my son is learning to be a little boy. But this quote got me thinking: What if we labeled mothers as &ldquo;terrible&rdquo; for all their misgivings and lessons learned along this tumultuous journey of motherhood?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-then-i-read-this-book\">Then I Read This Book<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>A friend hooked me up with a copy of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/014311171X\/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=hyhf-terrible-twos-20&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=014311171X&amp;linkId=558dc3caf8c08bbf2e30aa64710f1e43\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">The Danish Way<\/a>. I love parenting books, so of course I was game. After reading it a bit, I got to a part about how the Danes approach the toddler years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p>Apparently, the Danes <em>don&rsquo;t<\/em> use a phrase like &ldquo;the terrible twos&rdquo; in their parenting of toddlers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nope.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doesn&rsquo;t exist in their language.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, they call it <strong>The Boundary Stage<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It isn&rsquo;t teething, and it isn&rsquo;t terrible. This is simply a phase of life when children incessantly test boundaries to learn about the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><strong>Free Cheat Sheet:&nbsp;<a href=\"#get-printable-tantrums\" class=\"modal-trigger\">5 Things to Do During a Tantrum &ndash; and 5 Things Not to Do<\/a><\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignwide\"><a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/temper-tantrum-teachable-moment-kid-floor.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"428\" data-pin-description=\"Are your toddler's tantrums driving you crazy? This parenting tip might just save you. Fantastic advice for when your kids are going through the terrible twos!&rdquo; data-pin-id=\" src=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/temper-tantrum-teachable-moment-kid-floor.jpg\" alt=\"What Needs to Happen After Your Kid's Temper Tantrum\" class=\"wp-image-6893\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/temper-tantrum-teachable-moment-kid-floor.jpg 640w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/temper-tantrum-teachable-moment-kid-floor-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/temper-tantrum-teachable-moment-kid-floor-437x292.jpg 437w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/temper-tantrum-teachable-moment-kid-floor.jpg\"><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/donnieray\/14082223397\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Donnie Ray Jones<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-every-parent-should-know-about-the-terrible-twos\">What Every Parent Should Know About the Terrible Twos<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Turns out, there isn&rsquo;t anything terrible about a 2-year-old. During this stage, young children learn what they can and cannot do. Testing boundaries, tantrums, crying, <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/stop-your-kid-from-whining\/\">whining<\/a> &ndash; all of the above &ndash; are normal toddler behavior and signs of a healthy developing child.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As parents, we sometimes feel <strong>guilty<\/strong> about our children crying. We feel this need to fix it or stop the crying because that&rsquo;s what mothers do: We make the tears go away. But many times, we&rsquo;re doing an amazing job as parents by allowing the tears to flow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>You set a boundary.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Your child learns the boundary exists.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>You create consistent limits.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Over time, your child learns consistent limits and that boundaries are firm.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>You set a strong foundation for behavior.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>As your child matures with a strong foundation beneath them, things get easier.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/kids-asking-why\/\">The Magic Phrase to Stop Kids Asking Why 70 Million Times a Day<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-crying-in-the-elevator-again\">Crying in the Elevator Again<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>So much of my life right now is the repetition of setting a boundary. The protesting is often less as time goes on, but today my son is especially interested in testing the limits. I can only imagine he wants to know for sure &ndash; again &ndash; that he cannot run around the grocery store parking lot like a wild horse in an open field.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And today, I&rsquo;m letting him know that for sure he cannot. I&rsquo;m taking a deep breath to stay calm and letting him know that the boundary is <strong>firm<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And today, he&rsquo;s crying about it. He&rsquo;s gone from wild horse to flailing fish on the floor of the elevator in 2.4 seconds flat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And today, another stranger in the elevator asks, &ldquo;Is he teething?&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And today, I smile and say something different. &ldquo;Nope, he&rsquo;s in the boundary stage.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&rsquo;m not sure she even knows what I&rsquo;m talking about because she cocks her head to one side. The elevator dings, and we walk off together. To be more exact, I walk off carrying my crying toddler like a giant sausage under my arm. But I&rsquo;m still smiling &ndash; just barely, but I am &ndash; because I know he&rsquo;s not a terrible kid, and I&rsquo;m not a terrible mom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a normal stage of a child&rsquo;s development. He&rsquo;s just testing boundaries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And I&rsquo;m here to enforce them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/handle-kids-temper-tantrums\/\">How to Handle Your Kid&rsquo;s Temper Tantrum Like a Ninja Mom<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-get-your-free-cheat-sheet\">Get Your Free Cheat Sheet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Get this free cheat sheet:<\/strong> 5 Things to Do During a Tantrum &ndash; and 5 Things <em>Not<\/em> to Do. You&rsquo;ll get the printable, plus join my weekly newsletter! Just <a href=\"#get-printable-tantrums\" class=\"modal-trigger\">click here to get it and subscribe<\/a>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Print<\/strong>. Any paper will do the trick, but <a title=\"Neenah Exact Vellum Bristol\" href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/B006P1ER8O\/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B006P1ER8O&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=hyhf-terrible-twos-20&amp;linkId=UFDCVHLAVA6QNCMF\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">card stock<\/a> would be ideal.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Hang your cheat sheet<\/strong> somewhere handy like on the fridge.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Here&rsquo;s a sneak peek of your printable cheat sheet:<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><a class=\"modal-trigger\" href=\"#get-printable-tantrums\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/tantrum-cheat-sheet-preview.png\" alt=\"5 Things to Do During a Tantrum &ndash; and 5 Things Not to Do\" class=\"wp-image-8043\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/tantrum-cheat-sheet-preview.png 640w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/tantrum-cheat-sheet-preview-300x94.png 300w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/tantrum-cheat-sheet-preview-560x175.png 560w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/tantrum-cheat-sheet-preview.png\"><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p><small><em>Pinterest photo of smiling girl on swing by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/donnieray\/14276228510\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Donnie Ray Jones<\/a>.<\/em><\/small><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading after-entry-cta\" 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terrible twos &ndash; er, The Boundary Stage? 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