{"id":8094,"date":"2015-09-21T15:30:40","date_gmt":"2015-09-21T20:30:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/?p=8094"},"modified":"2024-01-14T08:08:14","modified_gmt":"2024-01-14T14:08:14","slug":"post-baby-body","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/post-baby-body\/","title":{"rendered":"The Uncomfortable Truth About Your Post-Baby Body"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"meta-desc\">Inside: It&rsquo;s hard to love your post-baby body. But my toddler taught me an important postpartum lesson.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I gained a lot of <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/pregnancy-weight-gain\/\">weight during my last pregnancy<\/a>. <em>A lot.<\/em> My diet was fine, I exercised when I could, and I didn&rsquo;t have gestational diabetes. Still, my weight gain was crazy high.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/pregnancy-weight-gain\/\">talked a big game<\/a> about being okay with it, and I was. I still am.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My body did <strong>exactly<\/strong> what it needed to do in order to grow a perfectly healthy 9 pound 3 ounce baby girl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But here&rsquo;s the problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&rsquo;s hard to accept 55 pounds of pregnancy weight gain when that cute baby is on the outside and it&rsquo;s three months postpartum, but you still look <em>real damn pregnant<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not to mention I&rsquo;m older this time, and my <strong>post-baby body<\/strong> isn&rsquo;t bouncing back as fast as it did last time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So I got a fitness tracker, I&rsquo;m walking every day provided it&rsquo;s not 100 degrees out, and we cut our pizza habit down to once a week. And I&rsquo;m nursing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even so, that postpartum belly <strong>won&rsquo;t<\/strong> budge.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id8094_d4a94e-0a .kb-table-of-content-wrap{padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id8094_d4a94e-0a .kb-table-of-contents-title-wrap{padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id8094_d4a94e-0a .kb-table-of-contents-title{font-weight:regular;font-style:normal;text-transform:uppercase;}.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id8094_d4a94e-0a .kb-table-of-content-wrap .kb-table-of-content-list{font-weight:regular;font-style:normal;margin-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;}<\/style>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-a-decision\">A Decision<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Six weeks postpartum is about my limit for continuing to wear maternity pants. Something about pulling that big stretchy band up and over an empty, flabby belly gets depressing after a while.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But at the 6-week mark, I was <strong>nowhere close<\/strong> to fitting back into my pre-pregnancy clothes. So I broke down and bought two pairs of yoga pants.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Athleisure<\/em>, I hear the kids call it nowadays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Which sounds trendy and all, but it doesn&rsquo;t change the fact that <strong>every single day<\/strong>, I wear the same freaking yoga pants.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And my shirts? They don&rsquo;t fit either. Thanks to the gift that nursing brings, mainly. But also because my pre-pregnancy style is to wear slim-fitting shirts, and &ldquo;slim-fitting&rdquo; on this postpartum body looks a lot like &ldquo;sausage casing.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So I went and splurged on five new t-shirts at Target, $6 apiece. Sky blue, hot pink, burgundy, light purple, and dark purple. That&rsquo;s the extent of variety in my wardrobe right now.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-closet-sm.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" data-pin-description=\"Pregnancy's over, and your sweet baby is born. But if you're not on speaking terms with your postpartum belly, this is a must read.&rdquo; data-pin-id=\" src=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-closet-sm.jpg\" alt=\"Fancy t-shirts for my post-baby body\" class=\"wp-image-8110\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-closet-sm.jpg 640w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-closet-sm-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-closet-sm-438x292.jpg 438w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-closet-sm.jpg\"><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Note: Sky blue absent on picture day due to an unfortunate spit-up incident.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-mornings-are-the-worst\">Mornings Are the Worst<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>I go to the closet and pull out my mom uniform.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I set the yoga pants and the cheapo t-shirt on the bathroom counter and stare at them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I know I need to hurry and get dressed because the <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/happy-mom\/\">toddler&rsquo;s been quiet<\/a> for more than five minutes, and the <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/8-newborn-must-haves\/\">baby in her bouncy seat<\/a> is starting to fuss.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&rsquo;s past the time when we need to leave to take the second-grader to school, and I still haven&rsquo;t nagged her to stop playing LEGOs and get her shoes on and brush her hair and why didn&rsquo;t you give me this homework <strong>last night<\/strong> if you wanted me to check it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I stare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p>Those blasted yoga pants.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Every couple weeks, I lose it and do something <strong>crazy<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I try on my pre-pregnancy clothes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Which is worse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not so much a muffin top as a portobello mushroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/tips-for-postpartum-fashion\/\">7 Tips for Postpartum Clothes That Won&rsquo;t Make You Look Pregnant<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-this-morning-something-changed\">This Morning, Something Changed<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>It was one of those mornings, where my hatred for my yoga pants bubbles up in my chest. My husband Ty had already left to take our oldest to school, so I was home with the two little ones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My toddler sat nearby on the bathroom floor with a stack of her older sister&rsquo;s Nancy Drew books and flipped through them, one by one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ty and I were meeting for lunch&mdash;nowadays with a newborn and a toddler to wrangle, we don&rsquo;t do it very often anymore. I wanted to look nice. Or <strong>at least<\/strong> less like a yoga-pants-wearing, sleep-deprived mombie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>First I pulled out my trusty first-trimester jeans. The ones that are two sizes too big normally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I couldn&rsquo;t get them zipped. I grabbed the belly spilling over the edges, and I sighed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My child looked up. &ldquo;What do, Mama?&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-book-sm.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" data-pin-description=\"Pregnancy's over, and your sweet baby is born. But if you're not on speaking terms with your postpartum belly, this is a must read.&rdquo; data-pin-id=\" src=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-book-sm.jpg\" alt=\"My toddler watching me struggle to dress my post-baby-body\" class=\"wp-image-8112\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-book-sm.jpg 640w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-book-sm-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-book-sm-438x292.jpg 438w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-book-sm.jpg\"><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Oh, I&rsquo;m just trying to find something to wear.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Peeled those off and tried a pair of relaxed fit jeans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Same.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Ugh,&rdquo; I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Mama okay?&rdquo; she asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Yeah, I&rsquo;m okay.&rdquo; Although hearing myself reply reminded me of Sadness from <em>Inside Out<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I tried a black skirt with a stretchy band and turned to the side to see my profile in the mirror.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pregnant. I looked pregnant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maxi skirt? Lumpy. Shorts? Bumpy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I came back to where those yoga pants sat on the counter, and I picked them up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But as I started unfolding them to put on, I <strong>couldn&rsquo;t<\/strong> do it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I squeezed them into a ball and threw them through the bathroom door into the bedroom, where they hit the opposite wall.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Mama?&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her eyes wide.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Mama&rsquo;s frustrated,&rdquo; I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Mama throw?&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Oh, great.<\/em> I spend <strong>all this time<\/strong> trying to teach her not to lose her temper and throw things, and then I go and do it right in front of her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Mama got frustrated and threw her pants, but they&rsquo;re soft so they won&rsquo;t hurt anyone,&rdquo; I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Oh,&rdquo; she said. And went back to her Nancy Drew.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/pregnancy-weight-gain\/\">The Dirty Little Secret About Pregnancy Weight Gain<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-temper-temper\">Temper, Temper<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The worst part about having a fit and throwing something when you&rsquo;re a work-from-home parent is that eventually, you just have to get over yourself and clean up the mess you made.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Which is double annoying because you don&rsquo;t even have time to get the basic housework done in between sprints of your other work, and now you&rsquo;ve added an <strong>extra<\/strong> task.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Still mad at those stupid pants, I retrieved them and headed back to the bathroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I put them on and refused to look at myself in the mirror.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I stepped over the pile of Nancy Drew books on my way to the closet to pick a shirt, and she stood up to follow me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Blue, pink, or purple?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The baby started fussing in the bouncy seat on the bathroom counter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I couldn&rsquo;t bring myself to do it. I may be stuck with the pants, but I couldn&rsquo;t wear the same shirt <strong>again<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I pulled a pre-pregnancy shirt off the hanger and put it on as I walked back to the mirror, my child trailing me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;That looks horrible,&rdquo; I mumbled. The baby fussed louder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To the closet for another one. That one over my head, and back to the mirror.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Horrible.&rdquo; The baby agreed, I think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To the closet again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I scanned the hangers, picturing myself in each shirt and getting <strong>more and more<\/strong> frustrated with each mental image.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Finally, my eyes settled on a shirt with potential.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just an Anthropologie t-shirt from the days when we had just one kid and I still had a desk job, so we were okay spending $30 on a t-shirt because it wouldn&rsquo;t be subject to baby spit-up or diaper blowouts or collateral toddler-found-a-Sharpie damage.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-shirt-crop-sm.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" data-pin-description=\"Pregnancy's over, and your sweet baby is born. But if you're not on speaking terms with your postpartum belly, this is a must read.&rdquo; data-pin-id=\" src=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-shirt-crop-sm.jpg\" alt=\"Dressing body after baby? Not so easy\" class=\"wp-image-8113\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-shirt-crop-sm.jpg 640w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-shirt-crop-sm-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-shirt-crop-sm-438x292.jpg 438w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-shirt-crop-sm.jpg\"><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Gray with light pink stripes. Soft and flowy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I pulled it over my head and headed to the mirror, the toddler on my heels.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Hmm,&rdquo; I said. &ldquo;Not great, but not horrible.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/fix-greasy-hair\/\">Got Greasy Hair Postpartum? Here&rsquo;s a Simple + Cheap Fix<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-turning-point\">The Turning Point<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>I picked up the baby and saw we were close to blowout territory, so I turned back to the closet to lay her on the changing table.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My toddler pulled out a wipe before I even had her sister&rsquo;s onesie unbuttoned, and she held it up to me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I smiled. &ldquo;Thank you, sweetie.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She stood next to me during the diaper change and <strong>just<\/strong> watched. Unusually quiet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After I got the baby buttoned back up again, her big sis reached a little hand up to my shirt and felt the fabric.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Mama look nice,&rdquo; she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I looked down at her. &ldquo;What did you say?&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She smiled. &ldquo;Mama look nice.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Oh honey.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And my eyes felt hot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I realized she&rsquo;d been watching me that <strong>whole time<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Watching me frustrated with my body.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Watching me grab my post-baby belly flab and frown.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Watching me call my body &ldquo;horrible.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-a-painful-reminder\">A Painful Reminder<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Most of my life, I&rsquo;ve worried about my dress size and my weight and whether my belly pooch was too&hellip;poochy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a teenager, I studied <em>Seventeen<\/em> magazine and thought if I could <strong>just<\/strong> look like Alyssa Milano, a boy would finally ask me out on a date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In college, I would stare at my profile in the mirror and wish I could just slice off my belly. Even though I was at a perfectly average weight for my height.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Funny enough, it was gaining weight during my first pregnancy that pushed me in the direction of <strong>finally<\/strong> accepting my body as it is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After a lifetime of battling my own body image issues, I went and modeled the most unhealthy behavior possible for my toddler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My toddler who&rsquo;s always watching.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Learning from what I do. What I say.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-bailey-sm.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" data-pin-description=\"Pregnancy's over, and your sweet baby is born. But if you're not on speaking terms with your postpartum belly, this is a must read.&rdquo; data-pin-id=\" src=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-bailey-sm.jpg\" alt=\"Your daughter is watching you, postpartum belly and all\" class=\"wp-image-8114\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-bailey-sm.jpg 640w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-bailey-sm-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-bailey-sm-438x292.jpg 438w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/post-baby-body-bailey-sm.jpg\"><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-promise-to-my-post-baby-body\">My Promise to My Post-Baby Body<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>From now on, I will accept my postpartum belly pooch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I won&rsquo;t stop trying to get rid of the dang thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I <strong>will<\/strong> accept it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I will set a good example for my toddler and my second-grader and my newborn who&rsquo;s already started watching me too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I will talk to my daughters about how strong my body is after growing three healthy girls.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And for now, I will pull on my yoga pants one leg at a time, then look at myself in the mirror and say:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Mama look nice.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-by-the-way\">By the Way&hellip;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ty never got to see me in that fancy t-shirt at lunch that day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It became a casualty to a mid-morning blowout.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>RIP, soft and flowy Anthrolpologie shirt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading 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