{"id":9230,"date":"2016-04-01T14:00:48","date_gmt":"2016-04-01T19:00:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/?p=9230"},"modified":"2023-08-30T08:08:46","modified_gmt":"2023-08-30T13:08:46","slug":"how-to-reconnect-with-your-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/how-to-reconnect-with-your-child\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Miracle Phrases to Help You Reconnect With Your Child"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"meta-desc\">Inside: These miracle phrases will jolt you and your kid out of a negative downward spiral. Don&rsquo;t forget to download the cheat sheet to help you learn how to reconnect with your child during those tough parenting moments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some days, I feel like I can&rsquo;t do anything right as a parent. The baby will only sleep on me, my toddler throws a <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/handle-kids-temper-tantrums\/\">temper tantrum<\/a> every five minutes, and everything I say to my 8-year-old seems to push her further away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I know baby sleeplessness won&rsquo;t last forever and tantrums are a phase, but this disconnection with my oldest daughter is <strong>new territory<\/strong> for me as a parent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After she and I have been snapping at each other all day, I want to camp out in my bedroom with a tub of Nutella, queue up <em>New Girl<\/em>, and wait for the storm to pass.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I haven&rsquo;t gone that far yet, but I definitely have retreated into myself with the explanation of &ldquo;she needs space.&rdquo; And what happened is the <strong>opposite<\/strong> of what I hoped for. The disconnect just got worse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I knew there had to be a better way, so I researched the best way to handle these tough moments. And this is what I discovered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"yellowbox\"><strong>Bonus:<\/strong> As a bonus for joining my weekly newsletter, <a class=\"modal-trigger\" href=\"#get-printable-miracle-phrases\">get this free cheat sheet<\/a> of 16 miracle phrases that will help you reconnect with your child after a tough moment.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>#kt-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-blocks-modal-link{color:var(--global-palette2, #2B6CB0);border-radius:0px;font-size:16px;line-height:24px;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;padding:0px 0px 0px 0px;margin:0px 0px 0px 0px;}#kt-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-blocks-modal-link:hover, #kt-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-blocks-modal-link:focus{color:#f96d60;}#kt-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-overlay, #kt-target-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-overlay, .kb-modal-content21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-overlay{background:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.6);}#kt-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-overlay, #kt-target-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-overlay, .kb-modal-content21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-overlay{-ms-flex-pack:center;justify-content:center;-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;}#kt-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-container, #kt-target-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-container, .kb-modal-content21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-container{width:100%;max-width:700px;-ms-flex-pack:flex-start;justify-content:flex-start;text-align:left;-ms-flex-align:flex-start;align-items:flex-start;}#kt-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-container, #kt-target-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-container, .kb-modal-content21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-container{padding-top:30px;padding-right:30px;padding-bottom:30px;padding-left:30px;margin-top:10px;margin-right:10px;margin-bottom:10px;margin-left:10px;}#kt-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-container, #kt-target-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-container, .kb-modal-content21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-container{background:var(--global-palette9, #ffffff);border-top-left-radius:3px;border-top-right-radius:3px;border-bottom-right-radius:3px;border-bottom-left-radius:3px;border-top:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-right:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-bottom:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-left:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);}#kt-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-close svg, #kt-target-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-close svg, .kb-modal-content21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-close svg{width:24px;height:24px;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){#kt-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-container, #kt-target-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-container, .kb-modal-content21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-container{width:100%;border-top:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-right:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-bottom:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-left:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);}}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){#kt-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-close svg, #kt-target-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-close svg, .kb-modal-content21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-close svg{width:24px;height:24px;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){#kt-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-container, #kt-target-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-container, .kb-modal-content21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-container{width:100%;border-top:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-right:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-bottom:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);border-left:0px solid var(--global-palette3, #1A202C);}#kt-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-close svg, #kt-target-modal21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-close svg, .kb-modal-content21045_df1990-70 .kt-modal-close svg{width:24px;height:24px;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-modal aligncenter kt-modal-linkalign-center\" id=\"kt-modal21045_df1990-70\"><\/div>\n\n\n<style>.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id9230_6ce011-b2 .kb-table-of-content-wrap{padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id9230_6ce011-b2 .kb-table-of-contents-title-wrap{padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id9230_6ce011-b2 .kb-table-of-contents-title{font-weight:regular;font-style:normal;text-transform:uppercase;}.kb-table-of-content-nav.kb-table-of-content-id9230_6ce011-b2 .kb-table-of-content-wrap .kb-table-of-content-list{font-weight:regular;font-style:normal;margin-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;}<\/style>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-no-island-you-d-want-to-visit\">No Island You&rsquo;d Want to Visit<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>When you find yourself in this situation, it can feel like your child is on an island with a dark, churning ocean separating you and her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Take a step <strong>toward<\/strong> the island? Uh, no thanks. I&rsquo;d rather keep my footing on solid land.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But your kid feels like she&rsquo;s on an island, too. With every nagging comment or barked command that comes from your mouth, the tide rises.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your kid lashes out, desperate to grab onto something. <strong>Anything<\/strong> to keep her afloat. And you pull away. You get quiet, or you leave the room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I mean, <em>of course<\/em> you do. She&rsquo;s being unreasonable and grumpy and disrespectful. You can&rsquo;t let her treat you like that!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But here&rsquo;s <strong>what you don&rsquo;t see<\/strong>: Your child is standing in the middle of that horrible, horrible island, the choppy water lashing at her feet. Feeling like she&rsquo;s the most alone that any person in the world has ever felt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stress hormones are flooding her brain. She can&rsquo;t think clearly. She can&rsquo;t see that by lashing out, she&rsquo;s pushing you further away. Her brain isn&rsquo;t capable of pulling back for the bird&rsquo;s eye view of her rapidly sinking island.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some <em>adults<\/em> can&rsquo;t get perspective in the middle of a stressful situation, and they&rsquo;ve had a lifetime of practice. And <strong>yet<\/strong> we expect our kids to be able to.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" data-pin-id=\"128000814387392542\" data-pin-description=\"When your kid is grumpy, moody, or angry, use these miracle phrases to reconnect. Thanks to these parenting tips, you'll have a healthier (and closer) relationship with your child. Includes a free printable cheat sheet with bonus phrases!\" src=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/reconnect-with-your-child-couch-sm.jpg\" alt=\"How to Reconnect With Your Child When She's Upset\" class=\"wp-image-9252\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/reconnect-with-your-child-couch-sm.jpg 640w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/reconnect-with-your-child-couch-sm-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/reconnect-with-your-child-couch-sm.jpg\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-your-child-needs-from-you\">What Your Child Needs From You<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>She needs you to build a bridge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She needs to know that you understand what she&rsquo;s feeling, <strong>even if<\/strong> you don&rsquo;t like it or agree with it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She needs you to help her flush the nasty stress hormones out of her body because until that happens, she&rsquo;s physically incapable of moving on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because here&rsquo;s the <strong>uncomfortable truth<\/strong> of these troubling parenting days: You probably feel like you can&rsquo;t do or say anything right &ndash; but your child feels exactly the same way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And in those moments, your child needs nothing more and nothing less than <em>your empathy<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/quick-fix-pouting-kid\/\">A Quick Fix for a Pouting Kid<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-but-here-s-the-problem\">But Here&rsquo;s the Problem<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In these moments, you have <em>your own<\/em> stress hormones to deal with, too. You feel frustrated, annoyed, or even flat-out angry. Even though you know you need to do <strong>something<\/strong> to reach out to your kid, your emotions cloud your ability to think clearly. When that happens, you are incapable of figuring out how to reconnect with your child.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I&rsquo;ve tried to deny that I feel frustrated or annoyed, but it never helps me deal with the situation. This is because bottling up a perfectly normal but negative emotion just makes it more intense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Which is <strong>why<\/strong> I made the following list. Mainly, I made it for myself to use in those tough moments. But then I thought, <em>Maybe I can share this with fellow parents?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Free Cheat Sheet: <a class=\"modal-trigger\" href=\"#get-printable-miracle-phrases\">16 Miracle Phrases to Help You Reconnect With Your Kid<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" data-pin-id=\"128000814387392542\" data-pin-description=\"When your kid is grumpy, moody, or angry, use these miracle phrases to reconnect. Thanks to these parenting tips, you'll have a healthier (and closer) relationship with your child. Includes a free printable cheat sheet with bonus phrases!\" src=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/reconnect-with-your-child-shy-sm.jpg\" alt=\"How to Reconnect With Your Child When She's Angry\" class=\"wp-image-9254\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/reconnect-with-your-child-shy-sm.jpg 640w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/reconnect-with-your-child-shy-sm-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/reconnect-with-your-child-shy-sm.jpg\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-reconnect-with-your-child-10-miracle-phrases\">How to Reconnect With Your Child: 10 Miracle Phrases<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Below are 10 phrases you can use to jolt you and your child out of a negative downward spiral. I even made a handy printable with 6 bonus phrases, which you can download below to hang on your fridge and help you remember how to reconnect with your child in the heat of the moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You should know<\/strong> these aren&rsquo;t just phrases that sound nice or that my grandma taught me to use. My suggestions are based on the science of how the brain works in those emotionally charged moments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I compiled this list over a few months using several different sources, which I&rsquo;ve noted or linked to below.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The next time you and your child aren&rsquo;t getting along and you feel like you <strong>can&rsquo;t say anything right<\/strong>, try one of these phrases.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-but-first-this-is-a-must\">But First, This Is a Must<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Repairing your connection with your child after the tough moments is definitely important. But you can make those moments fewer and farther between by finding <strong>small<\/strong>, doable ways to connect every day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To help us stay connected on an everyday basis &ndash; instead of just waiting for the negative moments to come &ndash; my family&rsquo;s number one go-to solution is this set of the <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/family-conversation-starters\">best family conversation starters<\/a>. Unlike a lot of conversation starters for kids, these questions actually <em>work<\/em> to get more than one-word answers out of your kids.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We use these conversation starters at the dinner table, on the commute to and from school, and any other time we have a spare couple minutes. This one habit has been a <strong>game-changer<\/strong> for our family, helping us end every day feeling connected, loved, and happy.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/family-conversation-starters\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" data-pin-id=\"128000814392488529\" data-pin-description=\"When it comes to family bonding activities, this one is a MUST. At the dinner table, take turns asking these conversation starters for kids, and you'll feel closer than ever! Every busy family needs this family tradition to reconnect after a hectic work and school schedule all day. These printable family conversation starters are GUARANTEED to give you more than one-word answers from your kids -- the key to unlocking their heart! #familytime #familyfun #dinnertime #kidsactivities\" src=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/conversation-starters-for-kids-4-med-post.jpg\" alt=\"How to Unlock Your Child's Heart: The Best Conversation Starters for Kids\" class=\"wp-image-11813\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/conversation-starters-for-kids-4-med-post.jpg 640w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/conversation-starters-for-kids-4-med-post-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/conversation-starters-for-kids-4-med-post-340x225.jpg 340w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/conversation-starters-for-kids-4-med-post.jpg\"><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">These <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/family-conversation-starters\">family conversation starters<\/a> fill your child&rsquo;s connection tank every day.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Now&hellip;ready for the list?<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-tell-me-how-you-re-feeling\">1. Tell me how you&rsquo;re feeling.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Getting your child to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0553386697\/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0553386697&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=idealmom-20&amp;linkId=SOAHF3RKSEJFQ2VW\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">describe the emotion she&rsquo;s feeling<\/a><sup>&dagger;<\/sup> &ndash; even if it&rsquo;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bakadesuyo.com\/2015\/09\/make-you-happy-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">just a word or two<\/a> &ndash; takes the power away from the emotion by engaging the prefrontal cortex of the brain. And that&rsquo;s a <strong>very good thing<\/strong> because it&rsquo;s the prefrontal cortex that acts as the &ldquo;grown-up&rdquo; and keeps you from playing video games all day or reacting like a three-year-old to every minor disappointment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"meta-desc\"><sup>&dagger;<\/sup> This site is reader-supported. When you buy through our links, we may earn an affiliate commission.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-i-want-to-understand-how-you-re-feeling\">2. I want to understand how you&rsquo;re feeling.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Again, you&rsquo;re getting your child to find words to describe how she&rsquo;s feeling, and that will help her move on. But also, with this phrase you&rsquo;re <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ahaparenting.com\/parenting-tools\/emotional-intelligence\/emotional-health\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">showing that you feel empathy<\/a> for her and what she&rsquo;s feeling. Empathy will <strong>build a bridge<\/strong> from where you are to the sinking island where your child feels stuck.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For this phrase and the previous phrase to work, be sure to look your child in the eyes and really listen to what she&rsquo;s telling you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-i-love-you-even-when-you-feel-angry\">3. I love you, even when you feel angry.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I&rsquo;m sure you already know why this phrase works. Children <a href=\"http:\/\/national.deseretnews.com\/article\/4247\/5-benefits-of-showing-your-child-unconditional-love.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">need unconditional love<\/a> from their parents in order to thrive physically and emotionally. This phrase shows your little one that even when you aren&rsquo;t getting along, you still love her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Change &ldquo;angry&rdquo; to whatever emotion your child is feeling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-it-s-okay-to-feel-mad\">4. It&rsquo;s okay to feel mad.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If your child tries to suppress what she&rsquo;s feeling, the feeling <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bakadesuyo.com\/2015\/09\/make-you-happy-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">will probably intensify<\/a> and come out in an even more unpleasant way. Feelings are a normal part of being human &ndash; even the not-so-fun ones. When you acknowledge it&rsquo;s okay to have yucky feelings, you show your child you still love her <strong>even<\/strong> during those times.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Again, change &ldquo;mad&rdquo; to the emotion your child is experiencing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-can-i-give-you-a-hug\">5. Can I give you a hug?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>In these moments, something in your child&rsquo;s brain <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0553386697\/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0553386697&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=idealmom-20&amp;linkId=SOAHF3RKSEJFQ2VW\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">called the amygdala<\/a> takes over. Why am I telling you about some random brain doohickey that neither one of us can pronounce? Because when you experience a negative emotion, the amygdala comes to life like an over-reactive car alarm. Then your brain <strong>shuts down<\/strong> to logic and interprets every little thing as a threat. This is why reasoning with your child when she&rsquo;s upset doesn&rsquo;t do any good at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here&rsquo;s the good news: Giving your child a hug will get the happy chemicals oxytocin and serotonin flowing. Even better than that, oxytocin <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/kristin-neff\/self-compassion_b_884665.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">reduces the reactivity of the amygdala<\/a>. Just remember to make it a good one &ndash; turns out you need to hit this <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/couple-hugging\/\">magic number of seconds for a proper hug<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/couple-hugging\/\">Why You&rsquo;re Hugging All Wrong &ndash; And How to Fix It<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-let-s-take-a-deep-breath-together\">6. Let&rsquo;s take a deep breath together.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Deep breaths can <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0553392042\/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0553392042&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=idealmom-20&amp;linkId=SZ3KMFMCCBLUXPOW\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">stop a body&rsquo;s stress response<\/a> and lower the heart rate. And that&rsquo;s something you and your child can definitely use during those strained times.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-how-can-i-help\">7. How can I help?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Asking this question gets your child thinking about solutions instead of focusing on the negative emotion. In order to think about solutions, your kiddo will need to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bakadesuyo.com\/2015\/10\/out-of-control-kids\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">engage her prefrontal cortex<\/a>. And even if she can&rsquo;t think of anything, the fact that you&rsquo;re offering to help makes a big statement that you truly do care about how she&rsquo;s feeling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-can-we-start-over\">8. Can we start over?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This question works as a reset button. But first, a warning: The first few times you use it, it may not work. Here&rsquo;s <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/parenting-tweens-phrase\/\">how to fix that<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/parenting-tweens-phrase\/\">The Life-Changing Phrase You Must Use When Parenting Tweens<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-i-m-sorry-for\">9. I&rsquo;m sorry for&hellip;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>You are human, after all. Show your child that a real adult owns up to her mistakes, and your little one will learn to do it, too. Maybe you didn&rsquo;t acknowledge your child&rsquo;s feelings at first. Or maybe you used a frustrated tone with her when you were actually upset about something that happened at work, or because you just realized you bounced a check, or because you haven&rsquo;t slept more than three hours straight in three years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For the record, <strong>this is not<\/strong> an effective apology: &ldquo;I&rsquo;m sorry I lost my temper, but you should know better.&rdquo; Research shows a heartfelt apology <a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/sites\/amymorin\/2016\/04\/14\/study-reveals-the-6-key-components-of-an-effective-apology\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">helps repair a relationship<\/a>, but no &ldquo;buts&rdquo; allowed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-next-time-i-ll\">10. Next time, I&rsquo;ll&hellip;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, you might say, &ldquo;I&rsquo;m sorry I lost my temper, and next time I&rsquo;ll try harder to stay calm.&rdquo; A promise to change is an <a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/sites\/amymorin\/2016\/04\/14\/study-reveals-the-6-key-components-of-an-effective-apology\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">essential part of an apology<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/happyyouhappyfamily.com\/angry-mother\/\">How to Go From Angry Mother to Happy Mom: With 5 Simple Hair Ties<\/a> {Printable}<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-get-your-free-cheat-sheet-with-bonus-phrases\">Get Your Free Cheat Sheet (With Bonus Phrases!)<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>When you&rsquo;re in the thick of a negative interaction, it&rsquo;s hard for your brain to settle on the right thing to say in order to reconnect with your child. Use this cheat sheet to help you in those tough moments. You&rsquo;ll find these 10 phrases plus 6 more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Get the free cheat sheet<\/strong>. You&rsquo;ll get the printable, plus join my weekly newsletter! Just <a class=\"modal-trigger\" href=\"#get-printable-miracle-phrases\">click here to get it and subscribe<\/a>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Print<\/strong>. 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